There are many to resolve the thing and to maintain the everything which you want. First tact is that you have to create a new point on her mind and divert her route.then you have to clear you're way. In this way you have to behave like "you're not satisfied with her" To be humble with her and joins with hers.In this way you have to be loyal when you're gathering one,and you are with another one. In my theory,you have to be in your own faith because there are many people to demotivate.So faith in your step and way.when you're faith in yourself then you're being in confidence.there is no chance to loss. There is the one way or one path to choose the life and ruined the problems and create a victory.